你寂寞吗？你感觉到寂寞的存在吗？其实寂寞是很友善的东西，可如果应付不来，那它就是可怕的东西。
寂寞会让你空出很多时间来思考，好的坏的。寂寞的时候，我们会想，为什么没人来找我？为什么我这么寂寞？为什么别人有的我没有？等等的问题都会出现，只是这些问题问对了吗？
寂寞会让你想起从前，开心的伤心的。寂寞的时候，我们会想，过去那么快乐，为什么今天却要板着脸孔？他们都不在了，我还剩下什么？他们变了，还是我自己变了？等等的问题都会出现，只是这些问题问对了吗？
有些问题是不必要的，可我自己却会钻牛角尖地去思考；有些问题是很重要的，可我自己却完全没去顾虑到！
寂寞的时候，也许是个停顿点，让我们在生活中歇口气。在这歇口气的当儿，也就是我们自我检讨的时间。检讨自己这些日子里所做过的事情，所犯下的错。但这检讨并不是埋怨，并不是责怪，而是然自己知道自己成长了多少。
寂寞的时候，问了自己那么多问题。其中有的有答案，有的却空悬在脑中，成了生活的障碍，导致自己自找的烦恼。有的人能够从寂寞中思考出此类问题的答案，有的却需要到旁人的帮忙或辅导。
这些日子一直认为，无论生活在任何阶段，我们都必须有个红颜知己，有个能够了解自己或倾诉的对象。心灵上有了依靠，生活才会走在正规上，生活才会有目标。
其实这一篇是写给我自己看的，提醒我自己别再过着自找烦恼的生活。可我是否会真正的了解呢？
Do you feel lonely? Can you feel the loneliness around you? From a point of view, loneliness is a good feeling, but if can’t handle it wisely, it is a harmful feel.
Lonely gives you more time to think, either good or bad thinking. When the loneliness comes, we’ll think of, “Why there’s no other people come and fine me?”, “Why am I feeling so lonely?”, “Why others have it but not me?” Many other questions will appear, it’s just the matter of, are we been asked by ourselves correctly?
Lonely recalls your memories, either happiness or sadness. When the loneliness comes, we’ll think of, “I’m happy in the past, but why not today?”, “They are not here anymore, what has been left for me?”, “They changed, or I changed?” Many more questions will appear, it’s just the matter of, are we been asked correctly?
Some questions are not necessary to ask, but I am the one who think of it all the time; some questions are fairly important, but I’m not even care about it!
When feeling lonely, it might be a stop point, for us to rest in our busy life. In the time we rest, it might be the time to do some self-criticism. Have a review or what have we done these days, what had we wrong these days. These criticisms isn’t blaming, nor excusing, but to know how much had we grew since than…
When feeling lonely, asked our own so many questions. There are some questions with answer, but some still hanging within our mind, and became an obstacle of our life, in the end make ourselves unhappy. Some people can give them the answers for those questions, but some still need helps or counseling from others.
These days, I have been agreeing of, no matter where we are, we should have a mate who knows ourselves, who can talk with almost anything. When our spirit has something to rely on, than only our life can be on the correct path and the objectives of daily life will be targeted clearly.
Actually, this post I had been writing is for me and myself to read, awakes me not to live a trouble life. But will I truly understand it?
